How do you open a person (child or adult) with a closed attitude towards you@
- Become gentle
- Demonstrate tenderheartedness.
- Understand & listen
- Acknowledge hurt and mistakes asking for forgiveness
- Gentle touch.
How do you open a person (child or adult) with a closed attitude towards you@
In my experience (not in priority order)
1. a caring and smiling introduction will calm the person.
2. no sudden movements or body language suggesting hostility.
3. use open questions to promote discussion.
4. show caring and understanding.
5. Never be judgmental or critical!
6. Gentleness, patience and a good listening ear are pre-requisite gifts needed.
7. Understand the person could be very vulnerable.
8. React to the situation with compassion sympathy and sometimes empathy.
9. Pray for wisdom throughout!
10. Have a box of tissues handy and a drink of water!
We used to run a Listening ear service at the Emmanuel Centre years ago!
Thank you, it is a shame the listening ear is no longer there as it would be something many people need with the various pressures we face. Excellent advice thank you for sharing brother.